Dating Advice for Women
Author: Caterina
Almost every day I coach women and give them dating advice
about how to seduce men and find the one that you
are truly meant to be with. What I have noticed though
is that most women have the same questions. Here are
the top questions that I get asked and just a few
of the dating tips that I give them: How can I get
him to notice me? The easiest way to get a man to
notice you is to do the one thing that most women
avoid - make eye contact. When a cute guy walks by,
catch his gaze and hold it for a second then nod and
smile.
This will definitely get his attention. How can I
be more attractive to men? Smile more. It is a documented
fact that smiling makes you instantly more attractive.
In studies men were asked to rate how attractive a
group of women were by their photos. The photos of
women that smiled were all found significantly more
attractive than in the photos where they didn't smile.
Women who scored 5 in the unsmiling photos scored
8 or above in the photos where they smiled.
How can I get him to ask me out? Send out the body
signals that you are interested. Meet his gaze, smile,
play with your hair. Lean toward him when he speaks
to you. Touch his arm lightly and briefly when you
lean in to make a point. How do I know if he is cheating?
Check to see if his behavior toward you has changed.
Is he bringing home gifts for no reason? Is he getting
his stories mixed up? Is he diving for the cell phone
or going into another room to use it? Have his office
hours changed dramatically - a lot of late night meetings?
Does he disappear for hours with no reasonable explanation?
Has he suddenly become more suspicious of your behavior?
All of these can be signs that he is cheating on
you. How do I know if he really likes me? Is he finding
ways of spending more time with you? Does he find
excuses to touch you, call you? Does he really seem
interested in what you have to say? Has he given up
time with "the guys" to be with you? All clues that
he may be in to you. How Can I attract men with my
body language? There are several techniques that you
can use: eye contact, playing with your hair, smiling
slowly, the lip lick, crossing and uncrossing your
legs, playing with a strategically placed piece of
jewelry, etc.. Choose a combination that feels comfortable
and natural to you.
Practice the rest at home in front of a mirror until
you feel confident, instead of silly. Is it really
that easy to seduce a man? Yes. Most men are used
to being rejected. Many have no clue how to tell if
we are interested or not. Deliberately putting out
the signal that you are interested makes his job easier
and ups your chances of being asked out by up to 80%.
That is just some of the dating advice that I give
to women.The more important dating techniques though
are the ones my clients use to look, act and feel
more confident. We use specific visualization techniques
and practice exercises. We also work on physical and
emotional makeovers so that when you are ready to
go out into the world with these techniques you are
confident and ready to be asked out by attractive,
intelligent, funny men.
Being able to clearly visualize what your life will
be like with the man of your dreams is the first step
in finding and attracting him. The other techniques
all help but if you can't picture yourself with a
great guy who treats you like a queen then you won't
project the confidence level that is required to attract
this type of man. Set that as a daily task for yourself
and prepare to be amazed at the results.
About the author: Caterina Christakos is published
author and dating coach. For even more dating advice
and tips go to: seductiondiva.com
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